3 Ways To Feel Sexy On A First Date (And Leave Them Wanting More!)

First dates can be scary and the nerves are usually flooding through your body. You want to make a great first impression and you don’t want to spend the whole time feeling unconfident. The goal is to leave your date wanting more - maybe this involves going back to your place or perhaps you just want a second date. Either way, you want to wow them, and here are a few simple ideas that’ll help you feel sexy and make you hard to resist! 

Wear An Outfit That Accentuates Your Best Features
Decide on an outfit that brings out your best features. This will be different for everyone - if you’ve got a gorgeously curved figure, you’ll want a figure-hugging dress that perfectly shows all the curves and outlines. We’ve all got at least one feature we like above all else. For some, this might be your face! You love the way your face looks or you love how you do your makeup, so pick an outfit that brings this out and lets you capture your glow. 

When your best features are shining and accentuated, you immediately feel better about yourself. It’s the first step to feeling sexy and you’re sure to enter the date with more confidence. 
Put In A Hidden Piercing
Do you have any discrete piercings somewhere? This could be in intimate places or perhaps you have a frenulum piercing in your mouth - or maybe one on your tongue. Wearing these hidden piercings instantly gives you a boost of confidence and makes you feel sexier. Something is alluring about knowing you have a piercing but also knowing that it’s not outwardly on display. 

The trick is to subtly display the piercing to your date at times. That’s why ones in your mouth are great as they can catch glimpses when you talk or laugh. It gives them something to think about and they immediately want to spend more time with you. There’s a cheekiness about hidden piercings; it almost feels like you’re playing a sexy game with your date, and this gives your self-esteem a massive boost. 

Wear Your Sexiest UnderwearFinally, be sure to complete your outfit with the sexiest underwear you own. Who knows, your date might not get to see your underwear, but it still makes you feel sexy when its own. You know you’re wearing it and that’s all that matters. 

And hey, if you happen to accidentally show a bit of your bra when adjusting your top, or maybe the top of your underwear shows when you’re standing up, then is that a bad thing? It’s a little hint - a taster of what might be to come if your date is lucky. Leave them wanting more and they’ll spend the next few days begging for a second date. 


Feeling sexy is all about confidence and these three tips will fill you with it. Wear an outfit that brings out your best features, don your favourite underwear, and conceal a piercing or two to give your date plenty to mull over.